How much do you want Mommy? To round Vuel moon ... It's feminism and men the phrase that every night and he whispered to Julen complete with the "TA" final. Has Autism, and through him every day seems more intense and happy as above although some days it seems that never gets dark. Still with him are always colors.
I never would have thought to differentiate between the two until I tried it ... For me to show autism feminism and men is one; it's just a label, a name that has guided the professionals who studied the case of my son; they saw certain signs that framed him in a group / disorder, and that facilitated the way for them to know how to help encourage him in his growth and development. When I have to talk to my son goes off the subject, when I say that has autism, I do not add "mild". The diagnosis in writing that I have says "Children Autism" feminism and men without specifying anything else, not to mention degrees. The fact that the case is mild Julen is my guess on what I see and what I live every day, but do not know the degree that corresponds exactly. I do not care. This year, following the commemoration of April 2, Autism Awareness Day, many parents decided to show through the video "The Two Faces of Autism" that the fact that autism is part of our lives does not mean that we have lost the will to live, it's really hard is not just the result of a disorder but the addition of discrimination that surrounds us and breach of the rights of our children. How much I shared with many parents who collaborated on the video and the great reception given and continues today on you-tube, has been overshadowed feminism and men by allegations that have been arriving in my email. They have been wrong to accuse me of deliberately conceal cases of severe feminism and men autism in the video, when in fact there are several guys SI that grade who participated; they and their parents. I received a friendly email, on behalf feminism and men of several parents that I sense from some association-, in which they explained their cases and showed me the sad and devastating vision of autism, which have so often read in books and never thought I would know. They speak of loneliness, darkness, sadness, crying, a real scourge for the family ... Other emails, Until seven individually but I guess another feminism and men group of parents, have touched rudeness and disrespect in every way to explain exactly the same. They accuse me of trying to hide the "other reality", its actually accuse me of not telling the whole truth. No share our vision. They have come to wish the worst for Julen, absolute sadness about my family, and all the problems and possible stereotypes and social discrimination to know what is "reality" ... all unnecessary cruelty. Because I am convinced that they know that for me either the principles should be easy, now they are not but I'm stronger now than two years ago, and I sure know I have done much damage. Yes, I am guilty, I am privileged, I am happy, I laugh every day, I enjoy my little progresses so amazing and I do not feel rejected by society. And continue to advance, I know, because my son happily shows me that can do it, because his family has full confidence in him, and that makes it much decided that autism is not going to be the protagonist feminism and men of our lives. What will Julen, but not the disorder. That was decided before even starting to see signs of progress. Do I have to hide? It is true that many families live very tough situations that I have not lived, everyday is extremely complicated, and from what I have seen in these emails much accumulated fatigue, much sadness, much uncertainty, much pain. They do not identify at all with the images we have shown in the video ... I am accused of distorting reality, but hard for me to think that in a family feminism and men there is no reason to be happy, despite adversity. feminism and men I can not believe that there is laughter, there is no hope ... and makes me think that the problem is not just autism itself, but many other factors that added to autism make no room for happiness. Also, when I fight for the fulfillment of the rights of our children, when I demand decent treatment and criticized the negative view that is always offered in media, published articles, etc. I fight because both sides are displayed, not only devastating is that until now knew who is the only one that many who see us from outside know, I am against you in the media your cover letter is sadness, aggressive behavior, lack of language, lack of feelings, stereotypes ... I do not doubt that in many cases is met, but I can say that in others. If I can, if I can open l
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